The Timothys

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Flying Nightmare

I wrote this letter to send to American Airlines but since I ended up just telling the whole story in my true fashion with details and all (because whats a true drama without details right?? :) I decided what the heck...Ill just post in on my blog for posterity (and anyone else interested in the details of my nightmare experience...which apparently was the worst cancelled/delayed flight days in history!)


Feb. 26, 2013

To Whom It May Concern:  

I am writing in regards to my experience with American Airlines for my trip scheduled to fly Thursday Feb 20th.   I was flying alone with my 22 month old and my 3 month old across country to meet my husband where he was stationed in Ft Drum New York.  He had been gone since October for training and this was the first time I would see him since Christmas.  

On Thursday morning at 9am I arrived at the Salt Lake City Airport.  The baggage bellman was very helpful, took my bags, and looked at my husband’s military orders and my military card without complications.

But when we approached the desk to receive a pass to have my mom and sister help me through check out, I was shocked at the rudeness and lack of help from the worker. She spoke to me and my mom quite condescendingly, and was then told that I had to take out my kids and have the stroller weighed. When we explained to her that I was going across country by myself, and it would be very difficult/impossible to do it without it, she said well then you will have to do it like the olden days. 

It was very upsetting to both of us at the lack of customer service and respect this lady showed us. When we asked her for our tickets and IDs back, she refused to give them back to us. At this point the bellman came up to us, seeing how we were upset at this whole situation. He listened to our concerns and then approached the lady and talked reason to her. After much talking and what looked like a hopeless situation, the bellman was able to finally talk her into helping us. If it wasn’t for his help I literally would not have made it through the next nightmare that was to happen. He saved me.  

I flew from Utah to Chicago with out too much trouble. I was to have a three hour lay over and then get on a small plane to Watertown New York.  When it got time to board I noticed the time had changed.  I waited in the airport for another three hrs or so as I continued to see the time move later and later. I had landed at 4:15pm (landed late) in Chicago, was suppose to take off at 6:45pm but didn’t leave until 11:00pm.

Completely exhausted from the day, taking care of my little ones, and lack of sleep, I was relieved when we finally loaded the plane. There was terrible turbulence and I was so motion sick I didn’t think I was going to make it. My little boy was even scared from all the drops. We weren’t even in the in the air 20 minutes when there was an announcement that the plane had a maintain issue and we had to turn around. It was devastating.

We landed and was told soon after that the flight would be cancelled and that I would be helped at the desk with other arrangements. Its was now past 12am.  My 22 month old was exhausted too and crying from all the days adventure. I was told at the counter that the next flight they could give me was Sunday! They said they could give me a voucher for one day at the hotel and some food but that was it. If I wanted another voucher I would have to come back the next day. I was running through my head how I would do that alone with two kids, not practical in the least!!
Then he said that maybe he could fly me Friday from Philly then to New york.  But all my stuff would be sent to Water town and there was no way to get it.  He said the shuttle is down stairs. Ok just get to the hotel, I told myself. I now had 3 diapers left and no formula, and not a clue how in the world I was going to take care of my kids. 

A compassionate angel lady took me under her wing and helped me as we left security and went down to level 1 of the airport to wait for the shuttle. She was also in the same situation but had with her her elderly mother in a wheel chair, and her 9 year old daughter and 4 year old son.

When we got down to level 1 I noticed first thing the awful smell. As I looked around I noticed many homeless people covered with whatever they could find sleeping in all sorts of places and positions. It was very scary and unsafe to be in this situation alone, with two kids. We waited and waited. Until finally we saw 2 men that noticed we were in the same situation and approached us. They said they called and found out that the Best Western hotel was completely booked and the vouchers were completely useless!!! I couldn’t believe it. We tried going back up stairs, there wasn’t anyone to help us and we couldn’t go back through security.

If it wasn’t for the lady I was with who had data on her phone and was able to look up different hotels in the area, I would have had to stay at the airport all night with no supplies to take care of my kids.

She called around at a few hotels and finally found one we could stay at. But we would have to pay 131 dollars a night out of our pockets!!! We waited for the shuttle. And waited. Called again. Shuttle ends at 12:00 am. It was now past 1:30am!! We would have to take a taxi and again pay for it out of our pockets!! I was so upset by this situation.  I was forced by the terrible situation to now get into a car with no car seat for my son and risk the lives of my children because the car seat had to be checked in.  It was either that or be separated from the only help I was getting around there and stay there at the airport with nothing.  It was very upsetting at the lack of support and help I was receiving from the people who had made this mess in the first place.

With the help of a complete stranger who also took compassion on me, he went out in the middle of the night, when he could have been sleeping, to buy me wipes and diapers so I had some basic things to take care of my kids and a phone charger so I could keep my husband updated. Because the food delivery services wouldn’t accept my food vouchers, I had to pay 40 dollars out of my own pocket. There was no option of leaving again with no car seat to get in a taxi. I was completely stuck.

I had to stay two nights and pay 277 dollars for the hotel. Our flight for Friday was also cancelled. My husband continued to call and FINALLY got some help through the travel agent here on base to schedule a flight earlier. I was again shocked at the lack of help and costumer service at all the people I talked to in Chicago. Many of them looked at me and talked to me like they could absolutely care less about helping me in the least. I could write another page about the different experiences of the lack kindness, help and customer service and frankly rudeness, but I will spare you.

The nicest worker that I encounter on this 3 day nightmare was the stewardess on United Airlines, on my last and final flight. She was kind and helpful. She checked on me and brought my son a special healthy snack. She made sure I had help getting off and told me before descending she would be back to help me when we got off. I made a point to express my appreciation and that she was the kindest and most helpful worker I had talked to in this three day nightmare.

From this experience, I am convinced that I will never fly American Airlines again nor recommend this airline to anyone else. The workers and customer service was quite frankly one of the absolute worst I have ever experienced. Other people I talked to and interacted with during this felt the same way. Many people felt completely abandoned and neglected by American airlines, including the group I was with. 

I will be making a follow up call in a few days in regards to this letter. Thank you.


                                                                                      Emily Timothy

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Catching Up

Wow it has been forever! To catch up, heres a quick summary of what we have been up to these last 6 months.....

Had a fun family vacation in Colorado with my Dad and siblings....


Took a trip with this hottie to Las Vegas....



Had great help packing :)


Went to Disneyland with Brice's family in August....






Joined the Army.... 


A friend asked me when he joined...i couldnt help myself... um..."when he lost his mind!" :)...I thought i was pretty hilarious and Brice couldnt help but smile too ha

Its been a crazy few months with all the ups and downs and challenges as you can imagine. I will have to write a more in depth post all about Brice joining and our adventure with that...it definitely deserves its own post :)....



Stayed busy keeping this one in line! ha....(it is not an easy job you know ha)...



 Had Halloween....what a cute construction worker!!...


Missed Daddy ALOT....we waited and waited for him to finish bootcamp and get home for Christmas....



Went to the hospital, you know, just to have a baby...no big deal... ha




Waited three more weeks until I could see Brice....longest three weeks ever. 



And had Christmas and did a whole lot of fun things when Brice was home for two and a half weeks...


We are now in the last of all this training and Brice will graduate Friday (Feb 6) and hopefully soon we will find out where we are moving. 

As for now (and all of January since Brice left again) Ive been hanging out with these two cuties and trying to stay out of trouble. :) Its been challenging thats for sure...some ways harder and some ways easier then I expected. It feels good to almost be done with this marathon and have it behind us. I still cant believe we actually did it now that I look back.



Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Pregnancy Update

20 weeks
Things have been going great with this pregnancy. I wasn't as sick for as long at the beginning and second trimester was easy. Im one of those weird ones who like to be pregnant I guess. Well until the hip and pelvic pain start and then I start to feel less than good :) It has gone faster than with Cade thats for sure. I cant believe Im already 30 weeks. So 10 or less to go. I know Im getting closer because Im feeling more ready. A few months ago a few people were having their babies that I knew I remember feeling so excited for them but thinking man Im sure glad thats not me right now haha but Im feeling more prepared for the challenge of labor again and having two littles one around here. I think also pregnancy does a wonderful job at the end of making you NOT want to be pregnant anymore, so having a baby starts to sound better and better. 


24 weeks                                 27 weeks

28 weeks
I cant wait to meet my little boy. Its so exciting. I know more of the hard challenging parts this time around but I know also more the amazing amount of love that grows for them too. Even though its still 2 months away, this time will go fast and it will come before I know it. So for now Im enjoying Cade's 12 hours of sleep at night and Im definitely enjoying the luxury of sleep and relaxation while I can.

Cade's Room Redone

Brice and I had a fun time planning, budgeting, and working together on our boys' room.  We wanted to turn Cade's nursery into a room that is boyish, more mature, and good for both boys. This is what it looked like before.  
Yellow and brown owl theme

Here it is now. Gray, white, royal blue, and red airplane/travel theme.  I made the bed skirt and teething bummer pad and spray painted the lamp shade to make it white. The two pictures are of Cade's 1 year old pictures. One of him is him with two suit cases. 
Dresser and drapes from Ikea. Planes from Hobby Lobby for 50 precent off.  I love that the window lets in so much light during the day and for naps and bed time Brice put in a roll down blackout shade. Before all we had was a blanket so it makes it so much easier and nicer. 
Bedding from a place online. Bed from KSL. Luggage toy organizer from Ikea and spice rack made into a book shelf from there too. I love that Brice and I found a map and cut it up to put in this frame and in the two little frames by the dresser. 
We used the map to cover these letters too. Brice did them and I think they turned out perfect. 
So thats it. We had fun doing it. I think its our favorite room in the house now. We love to sit in it and admire our work :)



Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Fourth of July 2013

HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY!!! We had some great plans for the day but poor Brice got sick and it ended up being a lazy day at home. We did manage to get out of the house in the morning before Brice really realized he was feeling sick to go on a little hike up Yellowfork Canyon in Herriman. Cade loved the dirt!







Fun Family Visit

In June, Brice's family came up to visit us. We had a great time relaxing, eating, and walking around Riverwoods mall.  We let Cade play in the water there and he was in heaven!




Getting the car washed. Cade wanted to get his car washed too. 
Fun at the Dinosaur Museum. Cade loved all the kids he saw there and wanted to make friends :)

Daddy Daughter Colorado Trip 2013

Cade and I flew up to Colorado to have a fun trip with my sister Amanda and Dad. We had a great time and Amanda did an amazing job planning so many fun activities. We loved seeing Amanda and Cameron's new house in Colorado Springs and seeing all the beautiful, fun places around there. I thought Colorado was beautiful and wouldn't mind living there one bit! I am so glad we did this trip and hope we can keep it up through the years. (PS Sorry for the overload of pics. It was hard to narrow down to only a few:)

Cade and Aunt Amanda
Out to breakfast


Beautiful park in Boulder City 



Look a scenic drive up the mountain to see the view 
I wish I could remember where this was. But it was a place to walk around with lots of shops and interesting people playing music and doing artsy things. There was this girl who looked like a statue and she would stay still until someone would give her money and she would do move and smile at you. 


Cant pass by the water without playing in it right??


Leaving one of the hotels we stayed in
Ruby's BBQ. Eating lunch.  
Grandpa and Cade enjoying some good old corn on the cob

Wasn't so sure about the rides at first but warmed up to them and liked it

Ive never seen so many in one place!

Grandpa wanted to make sure Cade had his first four wheeler ride



Went to the Zoo. Only Zoo on a mountain in US. 

Look at that view!! 

We climbed to the top of that castle


Cade loved Amanda and Cameron's animals 
Oliver and Cade
Cade and Molly